Women's day is here, and every man and woman is searching for apt gifts to appreciate the women around them. Are you, too, a woman searching for women's day gifts for others? If yes, then great, but before browsing through gifting options for other women, what about the most important one? YOU! Before celebrating the womanhood of other women, this women's day, prioritise your femininity first. Before buying any gift for other women, get a few hot nightwear dresses for yourself to pamper your body and appreciate your every curve.
This blog will be different from your other women's day blogs which teach you to celebrate other women. Their lessons are correct, but before observing others, pamper your femininity first. In this blog, I have listed how you can appreciate yourself and make this women's day a different one for you.
Women are designed to care for and pamper others without any expectations in return. This is a unique quality of women, and we salute it. Its okay not to expect anything from others, but you have to take your complete responsibility. Start sparing some 'me time' for yourself, as you allot for your other professional and family commitments. Start spending time with yourself and pamper your body and mind now and then with massages. Start indulging in a hobby that you were good at or always wanted to try your hands on. Spending time alone takes you closer to yourself, and you go a step nearer to mental peace.
This women's day, promise yourself to get some 'me time frequently.'
Women are often the ones who compromise their wants for other members of their family, maybe their younger siblings, life partners, or children. Compromising for your loved ones is not wrong, as it is the essence of every relationship. However, if you break your heart every time for someone else's needs, you abuse your mind and mental health. So stop skipping small indulgences for the future. If you want to eat ice cream when no one else in your family wants to, do not postpone it, have it. If you're going to buy a sexy night dress for women that wins your heart, do not wait for your partner's approval; buy it for yourself.
Stop being your second option.
In a nutshell, be your first choice. This is not being selfish or self-centered but prioritizing you over others. Do you let others decide what you eat, wear or go? If yes, stop doing it. Wear what your heart wants and not what your partner, children, or other family members like you to see. When you want to eat some different cuisine, and the people accompanying you wish to have something else, let them indulge in their choice, but you do not compromise on your Ingestive experience.
Step in hot nightwear dresses for your sake first.
Does your partner buy black accessories for men in India only thinking about how much you like it? He might take your suggestion, but trust me, he keeps his likes and dislikes as the prime factor while buying anything. So then why do you always need to dress to impress him? Whether it is a sexy dress outdoors or hot nightwear, wear it because you like it and keep his likes and dislikes secondary. If it's his birthday, anniversary, or other special night, consider his likes equally, but regularly keep your wants primary.
In a long stretch of this blog, I have emphasized the need to keep your likes, wants, and desires as the topmost priority in your life, and NO, it does not make you selfish. Wear what you want, put on makeup whenever you want, eat as you like, and do not let society's judgement block you. Whether you are thin or plump, dark or pale, tall or short, there is someone or the other who will not be happy with you. Stop judging yourself based on society's stereotypes, and do your thing, no matter what. Teach yourself that you are the best version of yourself, and no one except your opinion matters.
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Take a step towards your mental health. This women's day, teach yourself to let go of useless thoughts, stop overthinking, and not let stress hamper your inner peace. Of course, this cannot be done in one day, and meditation is the only way that will help you achieve these goals over time.
Work out, eat a well-balanced nutritional diet, and drink more water to maintain physical fitness. But, again, do it for yourself and not because someone wants to see your specific curve size in sassy outerwear or sexy night dress for women.
In conclusion, this women's day, promise yourself that everything you do will be for your betterment first and then anyone else.